Anal Sex, The Forbidden Pleasure.

Anal sex is a forbidden subject in the majority of conversations, maybe because it people related to sexual orientation or a scatological concept. There are many myths surrounding it, such as what penetration actually means, the presence of a penis or two men's penis'. Sex is passionate and full of possibilities.

 

Are you sure you want to try it@f12 Many women associate this with there male partner, being initiated by him, but experience pain when they try it. Do it because you want to try it, and they way that you want to, never for another person. 

 

Are you sure that you don't want to try it@f13 The anus has many nerve endings, therefore, when stimulated in the right way, can give us a lot of pressure.

 

Are you sure that you (guys) don't want to try it@f14 In men, it is a very sensitive area just like in women. Actually, it is the way to reach the male "P" spot or prostate. If you introduce a finger into the anus and gently move it towards the belly button, we can find the prostate at about 5cm deep. You will recognise it because it is in the shape of an hazelnut of chestnut. You can stimulate it with your fingers, with the tongue, sex toys or objects, another penis... In men, it accelerates the ejaculation process, but to get the most pleasure, it is better to wait to be already aroused.

 

It is recommendable that the first time you do it, you are alone. Explore yourself so that you know what sensation it produces. It is ok to use an object to help because obviously, it is not the easiest place to reach. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn't have its own natural lubrication, therefore if you wish to introduce something there you should use a lubricant.

 

Anal sex in company

If it is your first time, it is best to try it out with a person that you trust well. Although we can have an amazing orgasm with anal sex, it is not always the case, and you need to know that they will stop whenever you say. it is recommendable to wait until you are in a very aroused state because that is when it will be most relaxed and dilated, it is not bad to use saliva as a natural lubricant. Anilingus exists! And it of course is a good idea to shower and clean the area both before and after anal sex. Remember to use Condoms as protection against sexually transmitted diseases and infections and if you find it too narrow and difficult, you can progressively use a finger or more to widen it over time.

 

And if after all this you still think it just isn't for you then thats fine. The important thing is that sexuality is free and each person should have be able to choose what pleasures them most.